Thanks again to
everyone who helped make the summer '08 season successful.
Congratulations to the many teams who were promoted for summer '09. And a
special congrats to the GU15C3 and GU17C2 teams who played for the state
championship!
As always, please let me know if there are any questions or
feedback.
Barry
1. Summer '09 Tryouts
Tryouts were completed 8/4-8/9. I think they went very
well. For those coaches who did not observe the process, each age tryout
consisted of one 2.5 hr session with skills and field activities. The
skills were specified by the NSC and the field sessions were overseen and
scored by paid, professional NSC evaluators. Coaches participating in the
team selection process got to see the scores and rankings, though these are not
released by VUSC. While team selection is never an easy process, I think
the data provided by the NSC evaluators helped.
2. Coaching Applications for Fall '08 and Summer '09
Thanks to all the coaches for filling out the Coaching Application.
I did receive an application from every summer '09 coach. In the future,
these applications will be mandatory for coaching, but also required before
participating in team selection. I hope you think this is a worthwhile
activity.
3. Fall soccer is underway!
If you are coaching U13 or older, please encourage your players to
play school soccer in the fall. HS teams are already practicing.
Middle school teams will start the first week of school.
4. Tactical Soccer Situations Test!
Studies
have shown that outstanding soccer players make as many as 10 decisions per
minute of a match.
The NSCAA has designed a
series of quizzes for coaches and players to help develop their situational awareness
and decision-making skills.
Are you up for the challenge? Each situation will be presented as a diagram,
and you will have 20 seconds to make the correct tactical decision.
Take the NSCAA.com's series of 16 Tactical Soccer Situations Tests.
5. Article of the month.
An article from the
Washington Post, Monday July 14, explaining what most of
us have encountered:
*Sideline Rage -- Sports Parents Go Berserk*
By Shankar Vedantam
Monday, July 14, 2008; A02
Among psychologists who study sports, there is a code word for parents
who lose their temper standing on the sidelines of their children's soccer, baseball
and football games: THOSE parents -- Tempestuous, Harried, Overwrought,
Self-absorbed and Emotional.
Jay Goldstein has spent years studying the species in and around
"These are rational, normal people," Goldstein said in wonder.
"Something goes off and they lose it."
In a recent study, Goldstein, who studies sports psychology at the
The good news is that parents did not report very much uncontrollable rage. And those who got angry reported that their
tempers flared only briefly.
The bad news, however, is that more than half of all the parents -- 52.9 percent
-- reported getting angry during the course of the game.
"Of the parents who did get angry, more than a third vented it,"
Goldstein said. "The real ugly part was that more than a quarter of the
parents reported it had to do with their own child or their own child's performance."
These are parents filling out a questionnaire who know it is inappropriate to
get angry and vent at their children's soccer games. If more than half of all
parents report getting angry, Goldstein thinks the number who actually got
angry and lost it was probably much higher.
Parental sideline rage offers an interesting window into sports rage in general:
Professional sports teams spend millions of dollars on marketing and hoopla to
get fans to identify emotionally with one set of highly paid athletes rather
than another -- to get fans to imagine that they are the "12th man"
on the field. With children's sports, that level of engagement is automatic,
because parents are prone to seeing children as extensions of
themselves.
The purpose of Goldstein's study was not just to measure how many parents got
angry. Goldstein and sports psychologist Seppo E. Iso-Ahola wanted to know whether there was a personality
profile among parents that would predict which parents were quick to get angry.
They found a curious pattern: Parents who lost it during games tended to be
both control freaks and people who measured their own worth by criteria
established by others. These would be the kind of people who were willing to go
into crushing debt to buy a luxury car because they would otherwise feel
unacceptably small compared
with a wealthy neighbor who owned a sports car.
"Those parents that saw their children and their children's performance as
direct extensions of their own egos were the ones most susceptible to going down
the path" of sideline rage, Goldstein said. "These people feel they need
to keep up with the Joneses: If my neighbor's child is playing for the
Parents who got angry also tended to see their children's sports in instrumental
terms -- as a means to bragging rights and sports scholarship -- rather than as
an activity that was enjoyable for its own sake. Not surprisingly, these
parents cared much more intensely about winning than about how the game was
played -- or, heaven forbid, whether the game was enjoyable. They tended to see
questionable calls by the referee, or poor performance by their children or
their children's teams, as being personal reflections on their own honor.
Amateur teams around the country are taking the issue of parental sideline rage
seriously. For one thing, such rage is unpleasant to everyone else watching the
game; for another, experts are concerned that children may get turned off from
sports because they worry about how their parents are behaving on the
sidelines. Some teams have created "Dum Dum" brigades -- people designated to go up to parents
who can't shut up and stick a lollipop in their mouths.
When Bernstein was done with his study, one parent whose behavior he analyzed
came up to him and admitted he had once been a rage-spewing sideline dad. But no more.
"He said, 'One day the referee didn't show up. They knew I knew something about
the game, so they asked me to be the referee,' "
Bernstein recalled. The cussing
from fellow parents on the sideline got so bad, the man said, that he wanted to
leave the game, or get the parents ejected from the sidelines.
"From that day on, I sit up by my car and read the paper, and glance up every
now and then and watch the game," the man told Bernstein. "I am there
for my child. Nothing more. Nothing
less."